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The Essential Guide to Stimulating the Erogenous Zones

By Carrie White on

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For Females Alone

Clitoris
The clitoris is situated at the very top of the vagina between the two inner vaginal lips. A small nub of flesh, it contains an extensive amount of nerves and blood supply. Direct stimulation of the clitoris is not necessary in all women to achieve an orgasm and many women prefer attention to the lips surrounding the clitoris as it can become extremely sensitive to touch, both before and after climax.

To send your Lover Wild: Finger Vibes are the ultimate in clitoral stimulation. Just strap them on to your hands/fingers and they’ll be putty in your hands! The Tongue Joy is another vibrator you shouldn’t be without. Powered by two standard AA batteries, just strap this vibro onto your tongue or another part of your body and sit back and enjoy the amazing results.

Other Soft Spots
Steer away from the usual erogenous zones to really get to know your partner’s body. Tenderly kiss and caress the palms of her hands, the backs of her knees and the inside of her arms all the way up to her armpit. The skin happens to be the largest organs in the body and is the most sensitive to touch and extremes of temperature so you can really go to town here. However, do be gentle; avoid too much rough play.
To send your Lover Wild: Kiss, caress and blow gently across the skin. Use gentle massage to get her pulses racing. 

For Men Alone

Glans Head
The Glans is the most sensitive part of a man’s body and using your skills as a perceptive lover you can be sure of getting your man off extremely quick! This is the pinnacle of stimulation for a man. If your man is uncut, his glans will be more sensitive than those who are not.

To send your Lover Wild: Run you tongue round the whole of the Glans, gently flicking your tongue over the top. Keep doing this until he begs you to stop or is close to climax.

Anus
The anus is a very sensitive part of your man’s body and most will love stimulation of the entrance if not a finger gently inserted inside to rub the prostrate gland. Always caress this area gently at first especially if you’re new to anal play.

To send your Lover Wild: Use plenty of lubrication as you rub your finger around the anus and then slowly and gently insert your finger. Buy him the Sensual Anal Sexy Gift Box to make all his dreams come true. One step up from your finger is the use of Anal Beads and then, if you’re feeling really brave, progress onto an anal butt plug or three.

Scrotum
The scrotum is the baggy sack that encases the testicles. Believe it or not, it happens to be very sensitive and not all men can stand stimulation of this area. Too much pressure to the testicles inside can cause intense pain so extreme caution must be practiced at all time. Basically, follow your partner’s directions and responses as to how much touching or caressing he can take.

To send your Lover Wild: Fondle his testicles gently in one hand or use a technique that’s even more erotic to lightly lick or suck the scrotum. If your man can handle it, gently take one or both testicles in your mouth and hum. The vibrations will send him to heaven and back.

For Both

Nipples
Whether you’re male or female, nipple stimulation can be one of the most erotic sensations you’ll ever get to experience, but, of course, it’s not for everyone. However, by using nipple clamps or jewellery either on their own or in addition to BDSM kits, you have the ability to enhance your love-making sessions by increasing sexual desire even further than before. In addition, they also free up yours or your partner’s hands to be used elsewhere.

To send your Lover Wild: Nipple Clamps with Weights increase the pressure on the nipples and they often swing when you move. Clamps with vibrations can work on your nipple just like a vibrator can on your clit, sending you through the roof with orgasmic pleasure. Try the Pulsating Nipple Clamps with its pulsating control.

Neck
The neck is one of the most popular areas to kiss following the lips and you can see why. It’s very sensitive and will most certainly cause your lover to go weak at the knees. Some areas are more sensitive than others so don’t be afraid of exploring. By kissing his/her neck after the lips it’s a sure way of encouraging your lover into bed.

To send your Lover Wild: Kiss and caress with a moist lips and mouth. Avoid giving your partner a hickey or a love bite. Try kissing the areas under or behind her ears and at the base of her throat where the blood pulses close to the surface. Lightly nibble at her ear lobes and kiss under the jaw.  Start slow and gentle and build up the intensity gradually.

Ears
The ears are another area of the body with a tremendous amount of nerve ends. The degree of sensitivity will vary with each person and whereas one person will love their ears nibbled or licked, another one may not.

To send your Lover Wild: Gently squeeze the earlobes with the pads of your fingers. Kiss and lick the area behind the ear, blow gently on or around the ear but keep nibbling as you do so. Avoid sticking your tongue right down the inside of his/her ears, though!

Lips
Kissing of the lips is one of the acts that tend to get forgotten about when you’re in a long term relationship but it also happens to be the most important. It should never be neglected as many women love kissing as part of the foreplay. I, for one, can vouch for that!

To send your Lover Wild: Try varying the intensity of your kisses and the type of kisses that you give. Start softly, then become more passionate, and then back down to softly again. Move your lips down to the neck and back up to the lips again. Kiss deeply for a few minutes, really exploring each others mouths. Nibble gently at the lips and caress the tongue as you kiss. Hold his/her face in your hands as you kiss, or caress the body at the same time. Hold your lover close to your body so that he/she can feel your desire for them. Kiss the eyes, nose and cheeks before moving back to the lips again.

Scalp
Manipulation of the scalp really feels good because it’s very sensitive to stimulation. If done gently but firmly it can almost induce sleep in the recipient.

To send your Lover Wild: Brush your partner’s hair, run your fingers through it as you kiss or give her a sensual scalp massage as a prelude to sex. Use the Erogenator, a scalp and neck massager to create an amazing feeling throughout the whole of your body.

Perineum
The perineum is the area between the vagina and the anus, and for both male and females it is very sensitive. However, exploration of this area along with the anus comes under personal taste and preferences.

To send your Lover Wild: Ideal little spot for kissing or licking and if you stimulate there with your fingers, use plenty of lubrication. Gentle vibrations from a vibrating butt plugs may be worth considering. Try the Funki Fungi or the Slimline.

Fingers and Toes
Another very erotic area to suck or lick, though, again, it’s not for everyone. Make sure yours and hers are clean before you start. If he/she is ticklish, then the eroticism can quickly become into a giggle fest! 

To send your Lover Wild: Try sucking on her fingers or toes during foreplay. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them can be incredibly erotic.

Inner Thighs
Don’t neglect the inner thighs if you’re already down in that area giving your partner oral sex. The inner thighs are sensitive to touch and can be usually neglected during foreplay.

To send your Lover Wild: Touch, kiss, lick and nibble your way to the clitoris or scrotum via the inner thighs.




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