Put the Spark back into your Foreplay

Have you slipped into that dreaded bedroom rut? Are your lovemaking sessions now more of a ‘Wham, Bam, thank you M’am’ than a marathon romantic liaison? Then, fear no more, with this guide you can help put back what has been lost and impress your partner with your skills at the same time!

Foreplay has to be one of the most important aspects of an intimate relationship. This simple act gets your partner wet or hard ready for the final act of penetration, it bonds you as a couple bringing you closer and it teaches you about your own body and that of your partner’s. Unfortunately, it is one of the things that is forgotten about or missed out entirely because of impatience or inexperience, but it doesn’t have to be like that.

Strangely enough, foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom. It can begin as soon as you get up in the morning and continue right up until the very last thing at night. It can occur whilst you’re at work, out on a business lunch, speaking on the phone or even whilst you’re doing the weekly shopping at the supermarket. Plus, there are so many ways and things you can carry out in foreplay that it never has to be boring or predictable.

To start you off, here are a few suggestions as to how you can please and tease your partner in and out of bed:

• Dress up for him. Men for example are more visual than women. They love to see their female or male partner dress up in sexy clothing. This is one sure way of getting your partner putty in your hands. Or, why not treat him to a naughty strip tease?  The Beginners Strip Tease kit has all the essentials you need to really give your partner a special evening, including instructions and a sensuous CD of music.
• Experiment with extremes of temperature as you explore his/her body with your hands or lips. Run an ice cube over his body, allowing it to slowly melt and then use your tongue to travel over the same path that the ice cube took. Or use the Amazing Hot Massager for a truly hot and intense experience. Taking a bath or shower together can also bring the temperature up a notch. Passion Bath Salts and Sensuality Bath Salts provide you with gorgeous smelling bath salts and activity cards that give suggestions for the ultimate erotic experience.
• Switch roles in the bedroom. Instead of him making all the moves and initialising sex why doesn’t she take the lead every now and again? Use soft bondage play to really spice things up! Handcuff or restrain your partner to the bed, blindfold him/her and go to town on his/her body using gentle strokes of a whip or tease the erogenous zones with your fingers or lips.
• For the men, ladies, use different touch sensations to get him going. Tell him to close his eyes or blindfold him again and run your hair or a feather over his penis or sensitive parts of his body. For the ladies, men, woo her with words. Tell her how much you adore her; find her attractive and how much she turns you on.
• Discover your partner’s most sensitive erogenous zone(s) and pamper to his/her whim. Some people love their toes sucked or feet played with and we’ve just the thing to use! Foot Fantasy is a kit designed especially for those who adore foot worshipping. It contains warming lotions, creams, an erotic foot fantasy guide and more. Another ultra sensitive spot is the nipples and by using nipple clamps or jewellery either on their own or in addition to BDSM kits, you have the ability to enhance your love-making sessions by increasing sexual desire even further than before. In addition, they also free up yours or your partner’s hands to be used elsewhere.
• Use a kit like 12 Sexy Thrills or 52 Weeks of Naughty Nights to extend your sex sessions further outside of the bedroom. These terrific and unique kits provide you with inspiration, games and sexy thrills to keep you occupied for weeks. Don’t use them every day as the novelty may just wear off, but why not trying using the suggestions once a week to surprise your lover randomly so he/she never knows when something good is going to happen!

I’ve listed several ideas here for you to try but there are so many other things you can experiment with to enhance your love life. These include using food, the act of kissing, sex games and taking your partner back to the early days of courtship to name but a few. The possibilities are endless and the only restriction is the limits of your imagination.