Deeper Thoughts

It can be hard to imagine--especially when you're sleeping in a too-big bed with feet as cold as frozen turkeys and no warm body to put them against--that there are certain advantages to being on your own.  But there are, at least sexually.  It is important to consider some options ... [full article]

The title of this article isn't a joke, nor is it an attempt to poke at a hornet's nest--I know that Valentine's Day can be a sensitive subject for people who are on their own. But it can be true. If you want it to be. When you are part ... [full article]

It’s one thing discussing sex, quite another to dive into the salacious river and satisfy all your sexual curios with a potential lover. It’s simple to provide visual sexual tips, or ‘insert part a, into part b,’ but being comfortable enacting most sexual tips requires self-comfort and awareness. Enjoying every ... [full article]

This is a debate that could potentially go on forever as there are so many opinions on the topic. The important thing to remember is that everybody is different, and therefore will feel and react differently to situations. The only person that really knows the answer to this question in ... [full article]

There is no pain like heartbreak. It’s awe-inspiring, really, how perfect is the somatic metaphor of heartbreak. Our hearts, of course, do not break, not really, unless we have a heart attack, or some medical thing like it. And yet, when we lose the person we love, we feel it ... [full article]

Dilemma One: Your partner touches you in a way that leaves you cold – or in a place that’s a total turn offIf you know someone well enough to have sex with them, you should know them well enough to tell them when they do something wrong, but unless you’re ... [full article]