No matter how tempting it may be, never send erotic or even personal emails via your work email account. Set up a completely anonymous account with a web based email server that has no connection with your job.
Only send erotic emails to those you can trust. I.e. partner, girlfriend, lover, wife/husband etc. The last thing that you would want is for absolutely everyone in the office to know what you plan on doing to your lover later on that night…
Make extra sure that you’re sending it to the right person and are also not sending it to every single contact in your email address book via Bcc!
Start off simple especially if you’ve never sent erotic emails before. Don’t go into too many details all at once. Encourage your lover to ask you questions that will eventually reveal your dirty thoughts to him. Use erotic emails as a form of foreplay; get yourself in the mood for the hands on approach later.
Take advantage of erotic emails to come out of your shell. Be as descriptive as you can. Don’t be afraid of using naughty language etc to really get your needs across. Tell him exactly what you’ll be wearing, what you want to do to him; what you would like him to do to you, where you’ll be waiting for him and any other specific instructions like no talking, for him to bring anything with him i.e. cream or chocolate sauce.
When he’s left work, carry on flirting via text messages and then leave him/her written instructions via post-it notes, scents/smells, music, candlelight and a trail of discarded clothes leading to where you are ready and waiting for him!
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