We’re back to the old ‘should I…?’ debate again. But, again it all comes down to personal preference and you should never feel pressurised into doing anything you don’t feel comfortable about doing. Either way these tips will help you to decide one way or another whether to take your first step to swallow ;)
Men should always ask for your permission prior to oral sex if it’s ok to ejaculate into your mouth. Or, you could always say beforehand which you prefer to do. Believe it or not, the subject almost always comes up whilst you’re flirting and/or talking about what you would like to do to one another! It’s a bit like anal sex…
Some women really cannot tolerate swallowing for one reason or another. It could be that they find it disgusting anyway, don’t like the taste or maybe they feel ill afterwards.
To reduce the amount of flavour, try taking the penis further back into your mouth as there are fewer taste buds. Be careful that you don’t take it too far back otherwise you’ll trigger the gag reflex; the one thing that will guarantee him losing his erection!
An alternative to swallowing sperm, if you really don’t want to do it, is to offer your face or your breasts for your partner to ejaculate over. Sperm in the eyes can sting so keep your eyes closed as much as possible. Try rubbing it over your breasts and/or letting it hang off your lips, chin etc. Men are stimulated visually and this would send them crazy.
Never pull a face or speak about your man’s sperm in a bad way, no matter how you feel about it! Think about how you would feel he if did the same to you. You can, however, make suggestions as to how he could help improve the taste. Increasing the amount of fruit he eats will help to sweeten the taste of his sperm. Obviously, the more you like the taste of it, the more you’re likely to want to swallow it.
If you really have to spit it out, do so discreetly so that he cannot see you do it, with no facial expressions or words. Maybe, keep a tissue handy so that when he’s coming back down from his orgasmic contractions, you can quickly dispose of it into the tissue.
If you’re giving oral sex to the new man in your life, then always use a condom even during oral sex. This will reduce the chance of contracting an STD. There are plenty of flavoured condoms here at Sexshop365 for you to try.
Fellatio positions to try:
The Upside down 69 – You lie on your back, he straddles your face. The penis enters your mouth at a funny angle and you cannot control his thrusts but you can caress his balls and anus.
Right Angles – He lies on his back, you lie on your front at a right angle to his groin. Your hands will have easy access to his nipples at one end and to his bum and balls at the other. Show him your face whilst you suck!
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