Disability and Sex Toys

Did you know that the silicone dildo was originally created by Gosnell Duncan in 1971, from the medical grade silicone specifically for people who were disabled? No? Neither did I!

It seems you really do learn something new everyday, but then, why shouldn’t disabled people be equally catered for with regards to sex and sex toys? It’s easy to think that most disabled people are not able to achieve sexual satisfaction due to physical deformities or restrictions but there is no reason why anyone should think that.

The only problem that disabled people may have to overcome is finding the right sex toy for their needs. Not all the sex toys on the market can be used safely or with ease as they would be by an able-bodied person.

However you came to being disabled, you will undoubtedly learn how to be more in touch with your body and your desires. You will be able to be upfront about what you need through communication. You will also learn to become more creative about accommodating your bodily needs. All these points will make finding that perfect toy a lot easier in the long run.

So, what things should you consider when finding and buying the right sex toy for you? Take into account these several key points when choosing a sex toy:

• How easy is it to use? Can I adapt it to make it easier for me to use? What parts of my body can I reach easily without pain or discomfort? Can I change my position to enable me to reach better satisfaction? Can this sex toy cater for my change in position easily?
• How has your strength and/or dexterity been affected by your disability? Certain toys need a certain degree of strength to use and also proficient use of your hands or fingers. Don’t be afraid to ask someone at Sexshop365 more information about a specific toy. I.e. how heavy is it? How loud is it?

• If you have limited or no use of your hands: Am I able to use this sex toy with one hand or with no hands? Can it be operated by remote control? Am I able to push a switch rather than turning it? Can I operate it with my feet or another part of my body?
• If you have lost the use of one or more of your senses i.e. Deaf or Blind: Could this sex toy be too loud? Could my neighbours hear it more clearly than I can? As I cannot see, does it have too many settings or functions to operate with ease? 
• If you have allergies to certain materials or chemicals than finding toys that are made from hypo-allergenic substances is crucial. Also, the use of certain lubrications may be restricted for you. E.g. allergies to latex prevent you from using toys made of rubber so silicone ones are ideal; latex condoms have to be swapped for hypo-allergenic ones.
• If you have decreased sensation: Choose a toy that provides with stronger vibrations to stimulate your body.
• Think about what turns you on sexually. Do you find penetration more pleasurable than direct stimulation of the clitoris? Do you intend to use your sex toys alone or with a partner? If you have a partner, is he or she also disabled?
• Be aware of a potentially life threatening condition (Autonomic Dysreflexia) that can be caused by the use of vibrators in a person with a spinal cord injury.

Recommended toys:

1. Remote controlled Toys are ideal for those with limited use of their hands.
2. Silent Vibrators for those looking for the quietest possible toys.
3. Emotional Bliss offers a range of toys with unique designs to make handling and using a pleasure. LELO toys are also worth considering for the same reason.
4. Vibratex are a range of toys that are made from Elastomer and Vinyl ideal for those with Rubber/Latex allergies.
5. Dildos with suction cups are good for hands free use. Consider the Dong with Suction Cup Pink 8 inch. Anal plugs are also designed for hands free use.
6. Dildo Harnesses can be strapped on to various parts of the body other than the pelvic region.
7. Flex-a-Pleaser can be used by those needing an extra few inches of reach for their own or their partner’s gratification.