A hand job is the term to describe stimulating a man’s penis with your hand or fingers. It is only used to describe the stimulation of a man, however, and not a female.
Hand jobs can be use as part of foreplay or as an alternative to sexual intercourse or a blowjob. They are ideal if penetrative sex is not possible due to the time of the month, infection or restrictive circumstances.
They can be extremely pleasurable and there are plenty of different techniques that you can learn and try out on your partner! Some of which are listed below:
• Lubricate both hands and move them together, up and down the shaft. Or alternate one up and the other down.
• Place both hands on either side of his penis, pushing hard against it and then stroke your hands up and down.
• Place both hands on either side of the shaft and start a spinning motion as if you’re trying to start a fire with a twig.
• Stimulate his balls with one hand whilst stroking him with the other.
• Using your open palm, rub around the head of the penis. This will cause it to become bigger and redder and more sensitised.
• With your thumb and forefinger make a ring shape and pump up and down the shaft using this. When you get to the top, close your fingers and ask him to squeeze himself back in, then slide all the way back down to the bottom again.
• As if you’re turning a door knob, turn the head of the penis using well lubricated fingers. Turn the other way and keep doing that until he climaxes.
• Concentrate only on stimulating the shaft. Watch the head, however, turn red then use the technique listed above.
• Use one finger to stroke underneath his penis to find where the most sensitive spot is. Ask him to tell you this and then pinch it gently, kiss it or nibble it.