How to have rougher sex: Bondage
Earlier this week, I answered a question about whether or not all women liked to have a session of “pounding”, rougher sex. As promised, we’re now going to take a look at some ideas for roughening up your sexual repertoire.
Part of the excitement of having rougher sex is the idea that one of the partners is able to give up control and just be ‘taken’ by their partner. It is a matter of trust, but also it is part of the more animalistic side of our natures which likes to be dominated or to dominate. One of the easiest ways to try this out is through a bit of bondage, whether that is a light, easy-to-escape-from tie or with hardcore handcuffs. Here are some things that you might like to try out:
I adore Bondage Tape. Absolutely adore it. There are few other toys which have so many uses and cater to so many different tastes–whether you’re looking for something very light and easy to start with (it’s not that hard to unroll the tape in an emergency, even if you’re the one tied up with it), or something much more advanced (you can wrap an entire body in bondage tape), it offers something for everyone. It’s non-sticky (it sticks only to itself), so involves no mess or unplanned for pain.
For a more traditional style of bondage without the heaviness of hardcore bondage, the First Bondage Kit is ideal. With cloth wrist and ankle ties, it is comfortable yet restrictive, and with the addition of a blindfold, it offers a whole range of fantasy applications. If you’re just starting out, try just the blindfold on its own to increase sensation. If it’s your first time trying out bondage, try restraining just the wrists until you both are comfortable. But for the more advanced, try all three and see how your night goes.
Anyone who has ever tried to add handcuffs to their toybox can tell you that it is surprisingly hard to find a good pair. Either they’re of such a poor quality that you can break them easily (and often accidentally), or they’re so hardcore that they are too uncomfortable even for the most masochistic of players. These are a real find, then: strong enough to get the job done when you’re wanting to play serious, yet made for play and so comfortable enough for play.
Bondage is one of the first things that people want to explore when they’re looking to spice up their sex life–mainly because it is a fantasy so many people share, but also because it is a very accessible fantasy to try out. Tomorrow, I’ll showcase a few items that may help you out if you’re looking for rougher sex that is less about restraining your partner and more about trying out a bit of light pain.
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