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Dear Birdie,
All my friends have had sex and I was wondering what age most people began having sex. I just want to know what is the normal age for this to happen.
Just Wondering
Dear Wondering,
I’m sure there are all sorts of statistics you can look for (or I can look for you: according to the BBC, the average age in Britain is 17 while it is 18 worldwide), what really matters is what is going on in your life. Having sex for the first time (and every time after, to be honest), is an incredibly personal thing. Some people find that…
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Dear Birdie,
I’m a guy and when I masturbate I get a tingling feeling all over my body, right as I’m about to come. Why is this? Should I be worried?
Thank you,
Got the Tingles
Dear Tingles,
It shouldn’t be a problem at all, so long as you’re in basically good health. What people tend to forget is that an orgasm isn’t just about what is going on between your legs–it’s actually an entire body party of nerve-endings shooting off and blood rushing every which way. The physiological signs that we’re about to have an orgasm can be different for everyone. Some people get…
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Dear McBirdie,
I’m a 19 year old male, and you may find it shocking but it’s truth that I’ve never masturbated in my life.
Is this bad?
I’ve a few times (2or3) tried to masturbate by shaking my dick, but the white fluid won’t come out.
I do know, though that nothing’s wrong with my erection. I do sometimes have nightfall, 2-3 times a month, hah. I’m worried sometimes, and my dick also tilts a little when erect.
Please help!
Waiting
Dear Waiting,
The short answer to both of your questions is “probably not”.
While it is true that a whole lot of kids start masturbating–even if they don’t…
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Dear Birdie: Is there a trick to cock rings?by mcbirdie on 1 Jul 2010 |
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Dear McBirdie,
I read your blog on how cock rings work, but it hasn’t been working out for me and my boyfriend. We got a basic vibrating cock ring [I assume you mean something like this one..? ~McB] and everything seemed fine. My boyfriend thought it felt alright on (he said that the vibrations felt ‘weird’ but not bad), but I didn’t really feel it. I mean, I felt it vibrating on me, but it wasn’t doing anything to help me come. Did we use it wrong?
Help Please
Dear Help,
I can’t imagine that you did anything wrong–the good thing about a bog…
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What Does It Do?: Egg Vibrators Explainedby mcbirdie on 20 Jun 2010 |
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Earlier this week, I was asked about some different types of toys–I didn’t have a lot of time to get into specifics with the toys, but I think it’s worth it to take some more time now to take a closer look at egg vibrators. They are deceptively simple looking, yet they’re one of the toys that people have the most questions about.
For such a simple toy, there are a surprising number of them available. The main reason for the there being such a full selection comes down to the fact that you can have your choice of wired or…
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What Does It Do?: G-Spot Vibrators Explainedby mcbirdie on 19 Jun 2010 |
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Earlier this week, I had a question about what a g-spot vibrator is for, what makes it different from any other sort of vibrator. I only had time in that post to very quickly answer the question, but it’s well worth spending a bit more time on it now.
The whole point of a g-spot vibrator is to be properly shaped and of the right material to let you find your g-spot and put whatever kind of stimulation on it that will really rev your engine. Whether you want a very light touch created by a soft silicone vibe or a…
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Dear McBirdie,
Do you know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don’t quite understand it, and hopefully I’m not the only person that has run into this.
Thank you,
Gagging
Dear Gagging,
You’ve probably got about three different reasons going on, depending on the guy.
1. More experience with porn than with real life. In much the same way that porn has led some men to believe that it is completely normal and desirable for a woman on top to do that absolutely insane bouncing action, it…
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Dear Birdie,
I wanted to get myself a new vibrator (I’ve only ever owned a small silver one that I got as a joke when out with a friend), but I’m not sure what all the different toys are for. What does it mean when a vibrator is “g-spot” or otherwise? How do you use one of those egg shaped ones?
Thank you!
Need Advice
Dear Need,
It is a bit confounding how many different types of toys there are out there, isn’t it? When I was just a wee lass making my first purchase of a vibrator, the only real options were whether you…
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